Native vs. Second Language Learning

Take a moment to think about this question: Do you remember learning your native language? Probably not. The first language we learn is not really studied in a classroom. But we hear it spoken and modeled around us. We gradually come to understand what things mean and eventually how to communicate what we want. Learning another language is completely different, and completely unnatural. When you are growing as a child, you learn to crawl, walk and speak without really understanding what you are capable of, or how far you have to go to achieve your goal. Most parents and care givers accept your limitations and think it's cute when you reach certain landmarks. Although there may be challenges, it's usually a low stress process that eventually works itself out. With second language learning (or third or fourth for some of you), you are totally aware of your limitations and conscience of how far away your goal is. Now that you are an adult, it's very humbling because you sometimes feel like a child as you try and communicate in your new language. Sometimes you have to rely on the children in your life to make sure you understand or are being understood. I acknowledge the challenges you are facing, especially given the craziness of the English language. I applaud you for the courage to go forward and am here to help as you continue on your journey!